Anti-aging elixir serum
Monday, December 29, 2008
Alqvmia
Anti-aging elixir serum
Friday, December 26, 2008
Flower name
I looked at a couple names and typed them in the search engine. After a couple of trial and errors, I found out that these lovely flowers are called snap dragon and come in shades of pink, lilac, white, yellow and other colors.
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Christmas Part IV
Dayee's Christmas honey & seeds bar treat
Dayee attacking the honey treat with gusto
Last time I went to the bird store to get Dayee's food, I got a honey treat bar for her as her Christmas present. While I was unwrapping the plastic covering in the kitchen, she was already making her unique "cooing" sound when she knew we were getting her food or her peanuts.
Just one look at it and she began attacking the bar, all the time making her "cooing" sounds to let you know how much she appreciated the treat. Well, it wasn't a small bar, but she finished it in less than 5 minutes, with 1/5 on the floor though!!
Meantime, B Chan and the cats were looking up at her to say "It's not fair!!" :D
Christmas Part III
Santa B Chan
Santa B Chan
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Good Tidings
Monday, December 22, 2008
Tokyo Trip
A friend has kindly invited me to go to Tokyo with her. She has a free ticket exchanged with Asia Miles. We were at her place planning our 5 days' trip.
First Day - arrive Narita at 3pm - Airport Limousine to Hotel in 新宿- Tokyu Hands, Muji, Comme ca - Yakitori - 西口迴轉壽司 -Street Food Stalls close to Takashimaya - 100Yen Store, 激安
Second Day - Rappongi 國立新美術館, Mid Town - Lunch at Kani Seryna - 新宿小田急電鉄 to 箱根温泉
Third Day - Gotemba Outlet shop till we drop - 5:35pm back to 新宿- Dinner at Takashimaya's 金半
Fourth Day - Ginza shopping - Fancl Outlet - Lunch at Kondo Tempura Restaurant - Meji Temple - 原宿, Bvlgari Cafe, Pet store, 八爪魚丸
Fifth Day - 築地魚市場 early lunch - Check Out -Flight back home
Looks pretty hectic!! Hopefully I could see Pascale and Leigh!!
(Photo of my boudoir)
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Christmas Part II
Christmas Part I
My Barnes and Nobles Order
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Acquired Family
"...My family is fortunate to have had the same babysitter for almost 4 years. Two of my sons can't even remember another sitter. It's not just the long-standing nature of the relationship that's important, of cousrse "Honey", our sitter, is part of the family.
She is a child at heart and an adult in mind, the ideal combinations to make children feel happy and parents feel safe. Christopher, my eldest son, introduces her: "This is Honey. She's not just our friend. She's family." And this is the magic of Honey-she is one of those people who is so enmeshed, in all the right ways, in our lives, that she is, indeed, family. She is aquired family, the kind that I hope you also have in your circle of friends.
You are born into whatever family creates you. This is not about choice. (A sad fact) As children, you often absorb the ways of that family in ways that stay with you forever-although you do have choices about what you keep and what you discard as you get older. (Thank GOD)
But friends, friends are all about choice, about the freedom to surround yourself with the kind of people you want in your life. There is nothing artificial, nothing forced or contrived, in the best of your friensdhips: they are freely chosen, freely continued, and they make you larger that you might otherwise be. :D
Today, think about the circle of friends in your life: new friends and old familiar friends. They are woven into the fabric of your experience, knowing things about you, about the way you see the world.
Take a moment to appreciate your family of friends, they are a gift you give yourself every day.
Sunday, December 14, 2008
PETA
This year, I plan to continue to pledge money to these beloved bears and do my part in helping to end this cruelty in abusing animals for human vanity.
The famous ad "I'd rather go naked than wear FUR!"
Another worthy cause I am considering is PETA.
In the December 22th, 2008's issue of Time Magazine, the co-founder of PETA, Ingrid Newkirk, took 10 questions from readers.
Excerpts:
Is there a simple,everyday way people can help animals?
Absolutely, Give your dog or cat respect, patience, understanding and love. And if you just change to one vegetarian day a week, that's a wonderful step that will save animal lives. It means you have chosen something kind instead of something cruel.
Is PETA against the consumption of meat? Do you want us to be vegetarian?
I think if you're against cruelty and you look at what happens to farm animals in slaughterhouses and on factory farms, you have to be completely against eating meat. And we don't need animals. It's the 21st century. It's healthier for us, better for the environment and certainy kinder to be a vegetarian.
I have never worn fur in my life. A family member tried to give me a fur coat one year, and the smell of the coat is one I'll never foget, the smell of animal blood. It gave me the chills and I simply told her that I don't wear fur.
Gradually, I have turned from buying leather goods into buying canvas and fabric bags and shoes. I haven't taken red meat since I was 16, and that is 25 years now. I still take seafood and chicken, but I plan to quit that, too. I guess to some people, it's over the top or irrational. Hey, everyone can choose their own lifestyle.
The operative words that Ingrid has used in the excerpt above are kind and kinder and that means a lot to me.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Marianne Williamson
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Thanksgiving
Monday, December 1, 2008
Catching Up
She commented that I am on better terms with my human family now, because she has seen the pics posted on facebook. Well, I told her that they were pictures tagged by others. The only albums I have posted are pics of my family - my kids, my craft and the studio.
Some things don't change and some things do. The family relationship hasn't changed, but I have changed. I am not tense and bitter now compared to before. Now that I have a life of my own, with my own extended family and my own work , I don't mind that some things stay the same. Afterall, I am used to it already.
p.s. This is a lovely mail I got from a friend.
Dear Bonnie
Talked with Josephine, and know more about what is going on around you recently.
Lady, you can't fight your family and win, nor can you wake them up. Those are the work of Jesus.
Be Happy! If you are doing what is right in the eye of Jesus, the World and anyone who does not know Him will rebuke you. You win by being happy, joyful, for this joy is not something you have (you know clearly), but this joyful life is from Jesus.
Let this life flow! Only this joyful life can touch and hose down the fire of rage within your family! Note I am not saying you can ignore everything your family member says, just cling your emotion to Jesus, who has been doing wonders all the way!
Praise the Lord! He is doing wonder in you and your family! This is your chance again, we have replayed this many times, and let's win this old game now and get on to the next level!
May His Will Be Done!
Hauter
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Reinventing Oneself
I firmly believe that if you want something bad enough, you would devise ways to achieve it despite all odds. I also believe that people can reinvent their own lives.
What I don't believe in are limitation beliefs. People who believe that they are victims of circumstances. People who stick to their comfort zones and old habits because of fear and insecurity. People who are stingy with love and appreciation. People who criticize.
What's worse, is to instill these limitation beliefs on little children, when they are still so curious about the wonders that life could bring.
To me, the sky is the limit, whatever your age.
Friday, November 21, 2008
She Walks In Beauty
by: George Gordon (Lord) Byron (1788-1824)
SHE walks in beauty, like the night
Of cloudless climes and starry skies;
And all that's best of dark and bright
Meet in her aspect and her eyes:
Thus mellow'd to that tender light
Which heaven to gaudy day denies.
One shade the more, one ray the less,
Had half impair'd the nameless grace
Which waves in every raven tress,
Or softly lightens o'er her face;
Where thoughts serenely sweet express
How pure, how dear their dwelling-place.
And on that cheek, and o'er that brow,
So soft, so calm, yet eloquent,
The smiles that win, the tints that glow,
But tell of days in goodness spent,
A mind at peace with all below,
A heart whose love is innocent!
Christmas Collection II
This is the second design in Pastel b.'s Christmas Collection Cards. Since I am insistent in keeping true to the spirit of using pastel colors for the cards, I had a long debate of how to design Christmas cards without resorting to using solid reds and greens.
This is a design I came up with. The silhouette of the Christmas tree is outlined in Satin Ribbon, and the tree is decorated with Pastel b.'s signature hand sewn petals, topped with a silver sequin. I think it turns out better than I thought. I have even come up with the perfect response to using the pale colors. It's a snowy Christmas. :)
Love
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Autumn Excursion
Again...
Maman et moi
Kobe passed on a year ago and November 7th was the 1st anniversary. Time really just flew by, coz I couldn't believe he was gone that long. One of our favorite outings is going to the Peak. B chan and Kobe loved running on the grass, with ears flapping and tongues out.
Translation Project
Christmas Collection
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
If Obama Loses
Friend A - move to Mars
Friend B - we'll all die
Friend C - all owners should check quarantine requirements on Mars/Venus for respective pets
It's not funny when Obama is not President.
Waves of bad news
I guess I have less worries than other people. I had a drink with a girl friend last week. She is married, with a teenage daughter and a 10 year old son. Well, she is the bread winner in the family. We are old friends and have both seen each other's struggles through thick and thin. We were talking about something, and she started to cry.
She said that she has made the most money with her company the last 2 years, in all the 8 years she has been working there. Since she has a lot of expenses, her bring home salary every month is reduced to nil. She knows that she has growing kids and that's to be expected. However, when she checked her retirement account with the company, her portfolio is 50% gone.
She then said, after slaving away all these years, she can't even get a decent retirement. My mind went blank and I could not think of anything remotely comforting to say to her, like the economy will be rosy when we reach 65 or something...
As if this is not depressing enough, we got a visit from the police yesterday morning. A newborn baby was found wrapped in newspaper and plastic bags, with no clothes on, and left at a supermarket a few blocks away. The police are conducting a search to see if there are any clues and they left us with a circular describing the case and their contact number, should we have any information.
I could not comprehend how any mother could abandon a child, making it a stark contrast to my friend, who has given up hope on her own retirement, trying to provide for her kids.
What kind of world is this and what are we reduced to?
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Blessed
I have been a whiner lately, complaining about deadlines and project size, etc. Since it's almost November, I decided to take out my New Year's Resolution for 2008 to see how I have done.
Ok, I made 3 columns: Things I did good in 2007, Things that need improvement in 2008, and Mission and Goals for 2008.
Things I did good in 2007
1. Quit job I hate
2. Set up a budget
3. Develop a savings habit
4. Have a financial cushion
5. Develop financial literacy
6. Enjoy a simple life
7. Conserve resources
8. Go within for power & answers
9. Be self-reliant
10. Develop confidence
11.. Adopt a Positive attitude
12. Choose to bond w/ positive people
13. Learn how to cut loss
14. Say "no" without guilt
15. Discard baggage along the way
16. Cultivate a value system that speaks for me
17. Clear Priorities
18. Clear Boundaries
19. Innate desire for a better life
20. Cleared away clutter & chaos in life
Need Improvement
1. Need a bigger nest egg
2. Do not fall into a limitations trap
3. Be more creative in living
4. Welcome abundance
5. Be grateful
Mission and Goals for 2008
1. Passive income increase exponentially to be free from rat race
2. People pay me fabulously for my talents and abilities :p
3. All source of income pouring in and opening up
4. Earn respect for my beliefs
5. Value doing what is right over doing what is easy
6. Think/say/express my values in my actions, walk my talk
7. Stop settling, stop being a victim of circumstances
8. Financial calm
9. Continue and refine all the great accomplishments in 2007
After taking stock, I can honestly say that I am truly blessed, and I have stopped whining. :)
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Out of the blue
I have a tough deadline to meet in a week. I procrastinated on this project, coz I just handed one in and I really needed a breather. After a few days of taking my time, I discovered that I was very behind on my projected schedule. So, I gritted my teeth and worked on the project for 3 days straight. My head was spinning when I woke up this morning, with a migraine and a very sore wrist.
I had a missed call from my partner. I decided to have a cup of coffee before I returned the call. Am I glad I did! The first thing she said was, "Stay calm, ok? Stay calm". My first reaction was something had happened to the studio. Is it on fire? Did somebody take off with the cards and the baby clothes? My mind was running wild.
My partner then went on saying things that didn't make any sense, like " There is this album, and I saw your name....I clicked on your name and there was you....at first I didn't recognize you....., there is this job referred to me...and there is this photographer....."
She was speaking so fast and was miles ahead of me. I said, "Hold on, what's this again?" Then, she repeated this frantic speech again, and it finally dawned on me who she was referring to and what she was referring to.
Out of the blue, a person from the past has appeared. Just like that, out of the blue. This person and this particular episode is so far from my mind, that never in a million years would I relate that past to my current life.
It's funny how people say things happen for a reason. All through these years, I have found that Someone Up There has a real good sense of humor. The humor is, if you don't learn the lesson well, it'll happen again and again, albeit in various guises, till you do.
I think this is a pop up test on "Have I learned my lesson well enough to graduate this time around"? I think I passed with flying colors this time. Not only did I not mind, I don't really care about this apparition that apparated out of the blue.
Hey, Someone Up There, your choice of timing just goes to show that your humor is not lost.
Since Halloween is around the corner, I'll just say this, let the dead stay buried.
(photo by Terry Bear)
Monday, October 20, 2008
Friend or Foe?
A male friend always calls me up to test his privacy settings. He doesn't want certain friends to see pictures or information of him that would "sabotage" his friendship with another group of friends.
I have tempered with the privacy button as well. Not that I have any secrets on facebook, of all places, but I certainly just want "my friends" to see my status and stuff that goes on in my life. So, my privacy setting is always "only friends".
On a particular day, I found 3 girlfriends changing their status from "in a relationship" or "it's complicated" to "single". Then came the bombardment of comments and questions from other friends about their new found status.
On another occasion, a friend has repeatedly stated that she was feeling sad/blue/disappointed in her status. Her boss's boss is so concerned about her, that he has called her boss to see if she is okay.
Well, I think that the last example is a bit like Big Brother watching. Has facebook become our foe?
Saturday, October 18, 2008
B Chan's Birthday
This year, we are missing Kobe, the cheese cake is also his favorite. Kobe is very picky with his food, but this one is definitely a winner! Here are some pictures taken today, with B chan trying to stay still and not gobble the cake in fromt of him. Happy 6th!!
It's my Birthday, I just turned 6...
Huh, mommy, still can't eat yet?
I hope it's birthday every day, yummy, yummy.....
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
New Cushion Collection
Monday, October 13, 2008
The Gift of Blindness
The man says he has been a really selfish person before, and didn't really know what love is, coz he has "never felt it as a child or grownup". But the man says the love he has for his guide dog is "the purest form of love" coz the man and his dog are linked together in a continous circle of service and gratitude".
The quote for the day is by Helen Keller:
"I thank God for my handicaps, for through them, I have found my work, and my God."
I think that "the gift of experience" of my most painful moments, have taught me to be more humble and most importantly, not to take anything or any person for granted.
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Cashmere Mafia
It's about four long time friends, who knew other way back in business school. All four have successful careers, but not so successful love lives.
There is this scene with 3 friends finding out that one of the girls' husband is having an affair, and they were thinking if they should tell their friend or not. They decided to, and then they took out their blackberry to check which day works for all of them to be there to tell their friend. This is funny. When they arrived at their friend's house, they discovered all of them are dressed in black. Lucy quipped, "did somebody die?" The reply is, "this is New York."
The setting is in New York, and the storyline basically revolves the lives of the four girls. Reminicent of SATC? Definitely. Still, it's really about girl bonding and I believe the the importance of having great girlfriends around you through thick and thin, and sharing little jokes, laughs maybe some tears. Now I am hooked to watching the program every week to see how the story develops.
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Nice Diaries
I never felt secure about battery gadgets. What if I lose all the data when the power is dead? I have a few nightmares with the 4 Palms I have gone through with 6 years on the job. For me, using pen and paper is the safest.
Every year, around this time, there will be diaries for the upcoming year beckoning you. I got my previous 2 diaries from Franc Franc and I really love them. With all diaries, they come with yearly, monthly, weekly and daily planners, but what I love best are the many nice blank pages and tear away notes which satisfy my list making habit nicely. Yes, I am addicted to writing lists.
I came across this article in Newsweek about some really nice diaries. You could find them at the "upmarket British stationer Smythson of Bond Street". This year, 4 contemporary artists have created limited editions appointment books. Since it's an artsy diary, it also includes extensive listings of upcoming exhibitions and the best art hotels and cafes. They don't come cheap though. The price tag is US$700 each, but the nice thing is that all of it will go to charity of the artists' choice.
Check out http://www.smythson.com/, you will find many other nice stuff. Great for browsing!!
(photo : http://www.smythson.com/)
Monday, October 6, 2008
New Cabinet
New Cabinet
Bottega Veneta Desk
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Taking a break
I slaved away and out of stress, opened my bottle of limited edition Black Label!! Anyway, 6 down and 14 more to go, but today I am taking a well deserved break.
I got a 7 feet tall display cabinet for the expanded collection of Pastel b. and Petit enjel. The cabinet will be delivered this afternoon (2-6). Before that, I will head out to get some more ribbons and threads, something I enjoy.
I found a seamstress in the same building of Studio White. She is a super nice lady, and we will be working with her on the new collection of Petit enjel and Pastel b., something I enjoy, too.
I guess the reason why I was so cranky is that I have been postponing the things I wanted to do and instead, stuck with slaving away with this project on topics I totally despise. The project is related to the job I left almost a year ago. As I translated the 'lofty goals and accomplishments' of these committee members, I could just feel bile in my mouth. Ok, I exaggerated, but you get the picture.
Anyway, I am dumping this project today, yes pity just for today, and heading out to do something I really enjoy, working on the happy items of Petit enjel and Pastel b.!! Yay!!
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Deadlines
All of a sudden, I am bombarded with freelance projects from all sides, and the dreaded deadlines are looming before me with the capital 'D'. Along with it is stress, stress and more stress. People don't understand why I am so stressed and ask me to take it easy, dada, dada....
What they don't understand is that I have to put my name and my company's name on each page of the project. This calls for perfection, at least a standard I could accept with conscience. I have accepted that I have a type A personality. I set very high standards with my work and this is the only reason that people entrust their projects to me.
Geez, I only hope people with mediocre standards would shut up, go on with their mediocre lives and quit criticizing. I, on the other hand, hope to expand my horizons and lead a better life. :)
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Studio White II
View from the Makeup Section....
Makeup Section....
The beaded partition hangs gracefully, subtly dividing Pastel b. and the Makeup Section.
Friends came over for a celebrating toast and we ordered take out from a nice restaurant. It's a cozy gathering, which was what I intended in the first place.
Thank you everyone for your well wishes. This is indeed a great start for Studio White!!